This Gay Couple's Story of Love and Courage will Inspire You!

Unlike in the US, where gay couples are openly accepted that same sex marriage was even legalized, Philippines is a different story. Experts even say that because of Filipinos' sensitive culture, the acceptance for same sex couples would be impossible for quite some time.

This explains why some individuals are hesitant to come out with their real identity, and why couples keep it a secret from the public –all because being in a same sex relationship is frowned upon.

But Josh Villa and Rod Cy are completely different as they share their own story of love and bravery above all criticisms. The Dailypedia had the opportunity to sit down with the couple and ask about how their story began, and progressed.

The Dailypedia: When and how did you first meet?

Josh: I can’t remember because he is always on my mind. (Laughs). We met through Facebook.

Rod: We first met last September in Solano, then we decided to meet.

The Dailypedia: What qualities made you fall in love with your partner?

Josh: Honestly, I was attracted to his looks when I saw him on Facebook, then I got to know him deeper and I didn’t expect that I would fall for his personality even though he seemed like a “bad guy” to me. Then, when I really got to know him, that’s when I realized that he is the nicest guy in the whole wide world.

Rod: At first, to be honest, he seemed macho and cute. Then, I realized that he is a good person not only in texts and chats but also in real life. He is very sweet and caring.

The Dailypedia: When did you realize that what you two felt was real love?

Josh: I realized that we really love each other when I went to their hometown even if it was a five-hour trip. I really endured that so I could be with him. I am not in school anymore and he is still in college so I did not hesitate and decided that I should be the one to visit him. To prove that I really love him, I went to his hometown even if I do not know the direction. I said to myself, “There is nothing difficult for the one I love!” I just went with the flow, and promised that I would [to] better to strengthen our relationship. Truth is, I really challenged him. I got to know him and discovered that he really was a “bad boy” but was determined to change his ways for me. He really proved that.

Rod: During the time that we haven’t really met each other in person, I really think that I was really in love with him, that is why I agreed to meet him. When we finally met, that’s when I realized that I really felt love, that I was deeply in love with him. I know this is true love. Sarap ng feeling.

The Dailypedia: When did you become official and how did it happen?

Josh: September 2, 2015

Rod: After several months of courting, we finally met, and then he asked me, “Tayo na ba?” I was actually surprised but I immediately said “yes” because I love him.

The Dailypedia: What is the one thing that you would never change about your partner?

Josh: I will never change my loyalty and faithfulness to him.

Rod: I don’t want to change anything about him. Almost everything I’ve been looking for in a partner, I’ve already found in him. He is the sweetest and most caring person I know.

The Dailypedia: What is the best part of being in love with your partner?

Josh: I love how much he appreciates everything I do, even the littlest effort. His sweetness even though I just influenced him. He was actually a bit better towards me in the past. (Laughs)

Rod: I am so much in love with his sweetness. He is genuinely sweet every step of the way. There isn’t any day that he isn’t sweet.

The Dailypedia: What are you most proud of in your relationship?

Josh: I am proud of us being proud of each other. The way we show to other people how much we love each other, being strong despite being in a long distance relationship. We are doing our best even if we are being tested by our long distance relationship. We make sure we are generous to each other. That’s what it is with love, right? Give and take. (Smiles)

Rod: I am proud of this “equal love” we have. We would like to prove to the world that we love each other and this relationship is serious. We will never leave each other and we will love each other no matter what happens.

The Dailypedia: What was your greatest challenge as a couple?

Josh: To be honest, we haven’t had any major fights. The only challenge we have is being in a long distance relationship. As time passes, we try to get used to that idea, that even if we are far apart, we will always carry each other in our hearts.When I miss him, I just hold my heart because I know he is there and that he will never leave. (Smiles). Ah, I remember, one great challenge we had was with our family. I was worried about what they would think because they think I am straight, but I still told them the truth, that we love each other and that he is the one I am in love with. It’s difficult to be in a discreet relationship. I decided to really open up to my family, and fortunately, they accepted that.

Rod: As of the moment, we don’t have any challenges. If there would be one, we will make sure that we will not leave each other and we will fight for what we have started. We will face those challenges together.

The Dailypedia: What would you advise those people who are still single but are longing to be in a relationship?

Josh: My advice? WAIT. Love should not be sought, because it will come. If your right one hasn’t arrived yet, share your love to your family and friends. Be true to yourself. There is one person out there that that has been dreaming of you. But if you really can’t help it, go and find that person! (Laughs) Just wait, there’s no need to rush. If you are meant to be together, you will be together. Don’t worry if that person hasn’t come yet. God is still busy writing your love story. Keep calm and be who you are.

Rod: What I can advise the single people out there is not to rush love because it will come at the time when you least expect it. (Smiles) Just like us, we didn’t expect that we will cross our paths, that we will be together.

The Dailypedia: What is your message to your partner?

Josh: To my loving boyfriend, THANK YOU because despite my imperfections, you accepted me for who I am. You understood me even though I am crazy when we are together. He is the silent type, but he has become like me which has made me fall in love with him [even] deeper. Asawa ko, don’t change, please? You don’t need to change as well becausse I have loved you for who you are, so just be yourself, okay? Be positive always. God knows how much I LOVE YOU. Till death do us part, ha? I love you so much and I am ready to fight for what I have started. Stay just the way you are.

Rod: Stay humble, stay sweet. I know you will never change. I love you so much. No matter what happens I will never give up, I hope you’ll be the same too. You are the only person who has loved me like this. I feel your love for me every time we are together. I cannot live without you. (Cries). I miss you. I promise you that I will never change and that I will never get tired of loving you. I love you so much.